Islam preserves psychological balance in several ways human being. Here we will see how Islam establishes the relations between the man and the woman. The safety of the family Islam gives the greattest importance to family safety, because the family is the social cell most important, it ensures the physical and psychological balance of its members. When the family is destroyed by the divorce, the whole of its members are unbalanced. How the child can grow in good physical and moral health without his/her two parents? A child does not need only milk, it needs affection, education, a good example to follow. Within the family, it learns how to develop its personality, its vocabulary, its practices. The child is the adult of tomorrow. Apart from the family structure, it cannot develop in an optimal way. A private child of the presence and affection of the one of his parents develop disorders of an emotional nature. It can feel rejected everyone, which will develop in him an antisocial attitude. This bad social adjustment and this emotional lack will involve other problems. The family is the best place for a child to grow sentimentally, spiritually and even physically. Islam is thus a protection for the family and the child. Islam protége does all of it lemonde while protecting the family, because each one among us was a child and the children of today will be the men and the women of tomorrow.
The protection of the child Islam is a protection for the child in various ways. It prevents the possibility of having children apart from the marriage. As we note it, the child resulting from a not-matrimonial union is generally given up by one of his parents, even both, and finds himself sent in an orphanage, where certainly it will be placed, nourished, partially educated, but it will not receive the affection and the love for which it has more the need to evolve/move in a manner balanced. No illegitimate children How Islam prevent does the births of illegitimate children? The sexual relations between man and woman are allowed only in the crowned bonds of the marriage. This limitation is not only theoretical but also practical, bus Allah prohibited the free frequentation and communication between men and women. Indeed, if the two sexes are attended freely, nothing will be able to prevent them from having illegal sexual relations and that will inevitably cause births of illegitimate children. Islam prescribes the marriage as the strict base of the base of family.
Obligation of the decency in the vestimentary behaviour Moreover Islam prescribed, for the woman in particular, like the man, to dress itself in a modest way. This is translated in practice for the woman by the obligation to entirely cover the body, of the head to the feet except the face and the hands. In any event, this obligation of vestimentary modesty is for the company a safeguard against the immorality of public manners. On the contrary, in the companies or the woman is encouraged to appear the most stripped possible, most sexual possible, the result is known, the decline of manners settles.
The woman: marry and mother Islam regards the woman as a wife and a mother.
In contrast, the majority of the not-Islamic companies regard the woman as a sex object with the detriment of the noble role of wife and mother. Islam educates and prepares the woman with her role of wife and mother, because the family needs a wife dedicated to her husband and a mother dedicated to her children. We presented how Islam prevents the possibility of illegitimate births by prohibiting the free frequentation of the men and the women.
This is one in the manners of protecting the child. The other manner of protecting the child is by protecting the family. With each marriage, a new family is founded, with each birth the family increases and Islam protége the family while making the divorce difficult; even if it is allowed. If there were pronunciation of divorce, the husband has one 3 months period to take again his wife, who during this 3 months period must remain under the roof of her husband, without the sexual relations theirs not being allowed, unless the husband announces that it takes again his wife! The divorce is one of the causes principal of the destabilization of the company and the children.
No free mixed frequentations Islam does not make it possible the man to freely attend women, in order to protect her relation with his wife. Islam does not make it possible the woman to freely attend men, in order to protect his relation with her husband. In Islam, the man and his wife are one for the other exclusively. This is the only means of protecting the marriage against the divorce, of avoiding the destruction of the family and of seeing the children growing without knowing their father or mother. On the other hand, in the companies where the mixed frequentations are free, two serious problems appear because of the free sexual relations apart from the marriage: firstly, the number of illegitimate children is very high, secondly, the marriage becomes extremely weakened. The marriages do not last a long time and the rate of divorce is very high. The divorce is not only the legal purpose of the marriage, but it is also the source of many stress and problems for the whole of the members of this family: the children, the parents-in-law, nearest relatives all are affected by the divorce of a couple. Admittedly, the Western companies developed technology, modern sciences, the industrial economy, but they only are little concerned with the protection of the family and the family life. The statistics and research abound on the means of protecting and to improve technology, sciences, the political life, the industrial output, on the other hand the unit of the family and the values family are completely forsaken; no consistent effort is made to develop and protect the nobility from the marriage and its values.
Protection of the marriage In the majority of the Western countries the rate of divorce reaches the 60%. Which is the significance of these figures? That wants to say quite simply that the social structure in occident destroys the marriage. This result is easy to envisage. In occident, the mixed frequentations are free, the consumption of alcohol is spread and decency of the women misses it helping; adultery is thing easy for those which do not fear God. In all these countries, the formula is as follows: men + women + alcohol + nudity + free frequentations = illegitimate children + destruction of the marriage + unhappy children. On the other hand with Islam one obtains the opposite formula: Separation of the men and the women + prohibited alcohol + female decency = legitimate children + protection of the marriage + protection of the children. It is high time for the Western specialists in sociology and psychology seriously to consider the statistics concerning the family problems generated by their moral system and to compare them with the results obtained in the same categories in the Moslem companies. It thus becomes obvious that the moral system of Islam is the only remedy for all these problems. Islam protége the family and children within the marriage. Islam guaranteed to the children to be born with parents linked by the bonds from the marriage, thus protecting the environment in which the child will grow. That the Peace and the Blessing of Allah are on the Mohammed Prophet on her family her Companions and those which followed it until the Day of the Judgment.
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